If you had to choose between more money or more love in your life, what would you choose? The society and world we live in is ruled by money instead of love and because of this a lot of people are following the road of money instead of love. People are because of this not really satisfied or happy and buy all these stuff to try to fill up the emptiness they feel inside. We work in jobs that don't bring satisfaction but only money. People get frustrated, depressions and do not feel loving or peaceful. This is not news. But what if we can find happiness, love and peace by following a different road then we are now following? By following the road of love we can find more love!

What would you do to live a life filled with love and to find the love of your life? How strong are you to follow the way of your own heart in a world that is ruled by the head, ego, lies, money and sex? Are you strong enough and disciplined enough to choose love when by choosing this you will not make a lot of money? When people look down on you because you're not living in a big house and follow this different road. When they think you're weird. When you need to figure it all out by yourself and no one helps you. When you need to work hard. Have to deal with negativity. When you have to say no to casual sex. When you should not eat meat. Drink not much alcohol. How pure can you live by finding that one thing that will make your life feel like heaven on earth: pure love?

What are you searching for in your life? Do you already know what your goal is in this life? What do you stand for? What would you like to change in this world? What happened in your life, what makes you angry or sad? What would you like to 'fight' for? I see around me people 'fighting' for money and on the other hand people who are not 'fighting' for anything. The ones who want to be 'successful' and the ones who follow the society they live in. The ones who will do anything to get more money and the ones who are supporting these people or are instead focussing on other things while the lying, manipulating and the abuse goes on. The ones who have no empathy, respect and show immoral behavior and the ones who don't know what to do and look away. How do we stop this 'fighting' for money and 'succes' and other immoral behavior that is going on? How do we evolve our society and this world to a higher and more loving level? I like to spread more awareness and want to inspire more people to follow the road of love.

I asked myself a long time why certain people didn't shared my values. Why they thought money was more important. I did not understand why they did not feel what I feel. I watched a lot of documentaries about World War 2 and saw the same mentality going on I was witness of in my own life and in society. People who were making money out of other people, the ones who followed and the ones who stood up. I wanted to know why certain people gave their life for what they believed was the right thing to do. And did not understand why others thought it was right to kill and mistreating other people. Or why people betray others. Or why people just looked away. I learned a lot by watching these documentaries, movies and reading books about it. My whole life I'm intrigued by the behavior of others and of myself. And where I now understand more about this I like to help make more people aware of the behavior that still is going on and how we can deal with this in a right way and help it evolve to more honesty and love.

Right now the masculine ego (this are also women) is ruling and the feminine energy and emotion is thought of weak. But what if this world is really all about emotion instead of money? Money can't buy us what emotion can make us feel. You see many people are in their heads, not in contact with their emotion anymore. They are not connecting. Not being creative. Not being spontaneous. Not being open. We are disconnected from ourselves and our feeling by the world we live in. Even women are not sensitive, soft and sensual anymore. They're becoming more masculine. You can see this by the way they talk, how they eat and how they have sex. I hear them talking about men's penis and that they need a big one cause otherwise they can't feel anything. How ladylike. And why can't they feel love for someone with a small penis, isn't this what love is all about to love someone deeply and sharing this intimate (emotional) connection? Or is sex just about penetration? This world has lost itself in a certain direction. And not the direction to more love. If we want this then we should start listening more to our feeling and living in a different way then we are now doing. In a more pure and loving way.

We live in a world that is represented by masculine energy versus feminine energy. And this has nothing to do with gender. We all have both energies inside us but because of our gender and programming by society and the world we live in we often have developed one energy more then the other. What if we are on this world to find balance between these two energies? That this is why we're on this planet. Why we're divided in two. To learn from each other. To grow and expand our souls. To grow in love. To find that what we're searching for: true love. But for us to find this we need to be balanced, complete (independent) and loving ourselves. How complete, independent and loving are you?

As we live in a world that still is controlled and dominated by masculine energy (again these are also women) we need to find our way to more feminine energy (these are also men). The masculine energy is all about action, concentrated on the outer world and thinks with his mind. The feminine energy is about being, she's focused on the inside and thinks with her heart. When we find a better balance between these two energies in ourselves, in our society and in this world then we are one step closer to more (true) love and peace.

Which man or woman already knows what unconditional love is about? How true love feels. Who feels passion for someone not by the way that they look but by the way they make you feel on a deeper level? Who knows what life and love is really about?

Can you imagine this world was once a paradise? A peaceful beautiful garden where you could live in peace and was surrounded by nature and its beauty. To live in peace with the ones you love, how sounds and feels this to you? To not have cars crossing by you. To not find garbage thrown in nature. To see how animals are enjoying their lives and nature. To see children playing. To do work you love. To live a life by love. Do you first need to win the jackpot before you can live a life like this? What if it all starts by feeling this love we are searching for and feeling the life we like to live. Can you imagine this or do you believe in the reality you're surrounded by right now? What if you can free yourself from all the negativity and shallowness this world represents? By staying true to the love you desire. By staying true to honesty. By choosing love over money. By choosing the way of your feeling instead of the logical and strategic mind. Are you willing to work the half of your life hard and dedicate yourself to love if you can live the second part of your life the way you imagined and worked for?

A lot of people choose the easy way. Easy money. Easy sex. Easy food. Easy ... etc. What if love is hard to find? Who thinks they will find (true) love by choosing the easy way in this world? By choosing the way of money. By choosing the way of ego. The way of lies. The way of sex. Who does think this leads to that what their heart and soul is really longing for? Why are people now choosing this way? Why is this world as it is? Who is already living a beautiful life with their true love filled with pure love? What if we can create the life we long for? But as everything in life this is easier said then done. What if it begins by staying true to what we desire? That by being in contact with our feminine energy (emotion) and masculine energy (action) and having a right balance between these two energies we can start to build and create the life we want.

By our emotion we can express ourselves in different ways: by singing, by acting, by writing, by painting, by baking etc. If we want to create something out of love it all starts by our feeling. With our logical and strategical mind we cannot feel the love. It all starts by feeling and then by doing. By making something out of our feeling. A song, a painting, a movie, a computer, a service, a shop etc. But to feel the love for what we (want to) do and to let it be our personal expression we need to be in contact with our emotion. Now we still learn by the society we live in to follow a certain routine or business steps to build this business, career or life. It is all strategical and not emotional or personal. A lot of people are currently doing without feeling. Or feeling without doing. It's about to find a right balance. I myself went from a business approach that I am raised with in this society to my more 'artistic' side. I know how difficult it is to follow your feeling in a world that raises you and likes to see you and certain things in a certain way. That teaches you to work from your logical mind instead of your imagination and feeling. And by following this certain routine or steps they learn and tell you you'll lose eventually contact with your feeling. You will get in your head because of it. Then you get stuck. You get stuck in your head and think of society standards and other peoples opinions.

Try to let go of how this world works and what we all are 'programmed' with. Forget for now the money you need to make, the rent/house and bills you need to pay. And also the car, the big television, swimming pool etc., everything the media has thrown at us. This is all 'nice' but it should not be our goal. Cause these things can make life maybe more easy or joyful but will never satisfy the deeper longing we all have inside of us. The desire to do something we love. To be loved. To love someone else. To live a meaningful life. To do things that make us happy. To be free. How do you want your life to be like? What do you want to contribute to our society and this world? What do you want to build or change? Who do you want to love? What does your feeling tell you to do? And then use your head to structure this feeling. Your feeling and your head need to be a team. But the feeling should be the driver, not the other way around.

What are we in the end really longing for? A lot of money? To drive a big car? Why do people now think they're successful by driving a big car or earning a lot of money? While the people who have this are still not satisfied and not representing the love. Why do we search for love and growth inside materialism? This is because of the masculine energy. 'He' (this are also women) translates everything literally instead of giving it a deeper meaning. 'He' knows life is about growth, but searches for it on the outside. But here we will never find it. Real growth comes from within. Our soul wants to grow! And it grows not by driving a big car. Or driving a big car has nothing to do with being an evolved soul or feeling the love. More evolved souls you will recognize by their energy, their light and what they stand for in life. They want to help make this world a better place and want to help people grow, instead of making money out of people and focussing only on outer and material things.

Are you living for money right now or for love? What if our soul only expands in the way to more love when we choose for love? To find a life that is represented by love we need to feel this love inside ourself. Do you like to find that one special person who really understands you and makes you feel a love and a passion burn inside like you never felt before? What if this person is out there waiting for you? But a lot of people are searching for money or driving rather a big car and living in a big house and making a career then to search for the love of their lives. Or stay in unhappy relationships or settle for less then they really long for. While they're busy making money or are with someone who doesn't feed their desire or needs (anymore) there is someone longing for their love, someone who fits perfect to their energy. A lot of people are not aware that they are following a road that doesn't lead them to their souls purpose. To more love. They think they are doing good when they make a lot of money or are being followed by a lot of people and are on television.

How satisfied are you right now? How much love do you feel? What would all the stuff, attention and 'power' in this world mean if you had not the feeling of love inside of you? I'm aware a lot of people are already not feeling the love and because of this are searching to compensate this empty feeling they have. We are all influenced and searching. It's a big thing that's going on. And the fact that the world is now being ruled by a lot of people and organizations that have only money as goal and are creating this illusion that life is all about money and materialism and that we find here our happiness. From all the advertisements you watch on television and the people who earn a lot of money who represents (pure) love? If you look at all these big cars and houses in our world, can you feel the love from them? Can you already look through the appearance and 'show' of some people and society and feel what life is really about?

People that are now representing this road of money and the 'show' they are living by and that they are making out of this life versus the people who represent the love and are living by different values and don't like to be in the spotlight, they are opposites. When the masculine would learn more from the feminine and the other way around then we can find the right balance. Then we can build and live in a world that is represented by money ánd love. Then money and outer appearance would not rule over love. Then money and materialism would have more meaning and be made and represented by love. Money and love would then work together. This is what we need to do together. But this is very difficult in a world that is so damaged by all the lies, abuse and immoral behavior that is going on. It is very corrupted right now. And this has its influence on all of us. If we want to be less corrupted and more pure and want to heal ourselves and this world then it's time the masculine energy that is now (over)ruling start listening to the feminine energy. This is a challenge. They don't like to listen. And their egos are easily bruised and confronted. They rather ignore then confront themselves and their ego. I can give examples how they have difficulty with this. How they don't understand. How they think the other person is dumb or weak or needs to change instead of them. If they only would be more aware and stronger. If they only also want to find love instead of earning money. This world could be a more loving place if more people were the boss of their own ego and in contact with their heart (feminine energy) and would choose love over their financial, sexual and other 'needs'.

Right now the world is divided in two. Masculine versus feminine. Head versus heart. Mind versus emotion. Money versus love. Action versus peace. Science versus spirituality. It's right versus left. Democrats versus Liberals. If we want this world to be represented by more love and peace then the left side needs to help the right side feel more love and get in contact with their hearts. And the right side needs to make the left side more grounded and be more assertive in life. Both sides need to find balance with the other side. As long people and society are out of balance and are just representing this one side we will not unite and not find the life and love we all are searching for. As world we should start to work together instead of competing. Our main goal is the same. To live a happy life, to feel loved, to give our children a good future.

Many of us are influenced and brainwashed by the world we live in. We are programmed to live a certain way. We are disconnected from our true self and the love we're searching for. We have adapted ourselves to society current standards and the world we live in. Was I following my own feeling and not a follower was I also influenced and brainwashed. But three years ago my eyes were being further opened. And also my heart. I had already a long time difficulty with the world I live in and was searching for my place and this certain life I long for. My own family thought I was weird. I come from a family with all more masculine energy. They follow the current road of society, of money and materialism and I'm following a different path. They don't get me. I felt lonely for a long time because of it but nowadays I understand why we think different and live different lives, it's because of our energy. As we are different we are open to each other and learn from each other. We help each other grow. Just like we need to do in society and this world.

When you're following a different path then the family or society you live in then this can be confronting. It's not easy. And lonely. But luckily I can be good on my own, I learned to trust on myself because of this. Though certain people and their behavior I'm confronted with in my life I thought I was strange and they were telling me these (negative) things, I have been judged and have been misunderstood. And as people were not supporting my dreams or feelings I stayed true to myself. I kept believing in myself, even when no one else did. This was not easy and you need to be strong and convinced of what you stand for. But when you stay true to your feeling then you can find your way and you will find out that there is more then the society and world we live in. That we are not here to just make money. Or to behave or look a certain way. But that we are here to grow. To grow in love. To expand our conscious and our soul. To find our way home. Our way to our higher and true self. To true love. By following the road of love and finding more balance in ourselves we can take ourselves and our lives to a higher and the next level. A level of more light and love.

It is challenging and difficult to go the road of love in a world that's all about money. What do many people believe right now what life is about? Why is the system we live in all about money and materialism? All the advertisements and things they are telling us already when we're young. We already know money doesn't make us happy in the end but without money we feel lost and have worries. We need money to build a life in this world and take care of ourselves. I know. And people need money to support their families. I understand. But we're adjusting ourselves to a certain world that is created by certain people. People with certain intentions. They're creating this reality which we all follow. But does this reality bring us joy and love? Look at how the world is right now. What if we could find more joy and love by following a different road? By not choosing the current road or the current ladder of 'succes' but the road of love. We're being challenged. How many people are able to climb higher on the ladder of love in a world that is all about money and where we are disconnected from our feeling? And who will stay true to love when their ego will be confronted, when they can lose their house, when they have not much money for food and can't drive a luxury car etc.?

What if life is a 'test'? To test how strong and dedicated you are. When you're strong and dedicated enough then a new and special door will open. The door to more love. The door to the life everyone would like to live. Everyone would like (true) love. Freedom. Bliss. Peace. But who is from the inside aligning with these higher values? Who represents love and strength? Who is pure and has good intentions? Who will give his or her life to save someone else? Who will give up their status to stay true to their heart? And so much more. Most people want to be happy but what are they doing to create happiness? They hope they win a lot of money. They pray to God. They follow certain people. They lie for money. They are not searching for answers themselves. And they don't like to be alone. What if more people were more aware and honest, in contact with their own feeling and choose to dedicate their life to love? That they would 'fight' and work for this life they want and had more patience and were able to wait a while. How would our world then look like?

A lot of people already know that this world is now being ruled by masculine energy that is not in contact with 'his' (are also women) heart and wants only to make money out of life and other people. It plays us to buy 'his' stuff. So 'he' can earn a lot of money. It's a system we're in and mentality people live by. We don't know better then life is about earning money and being 'successful'. This system and mentality is leading us away what life is really about: love. I want to make people more aware that the real success in this life is not money but love. I want to help them climb higher on the ladder of love instead of the current ladder of 'success'. I want to reach people who like to listen. Who are open for someone who is different. Who do not judge. Who is searching for more meaning in their life and want to help make this world more loving, tender and refined?

As life is not all lovely and sometimes challenging and hard I just want to make us aware of the behavior, mentality and energy that is now going on and I like to challenge more people to be braver and stronger. To let themselves get not seduced by money or choose the easy way in this life but to stay true to their heart and honesty. I like to show that by being honest you can reach more in this life then the money you can earn by lying or by a certain behavior in our society. By being honest you can climb higher on the true ladder of success: LOVE!

Who also chooses the road to more love? We can't buy love, but we can earn it!

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